Transformation Garden – October 12, 2020

Todays Text and Thought of Encouragement:

And Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, whose name was Tamar.  And Er, Judahs firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the Lord; and the Lord slew him.

Genesis 38: 6,7

King James Version


A Compassionate God 

A Dad Who Never forgets His Girls

Man may dismiss compassion from his heart, but God never will.

William Cowper

Has there been a time in my life when I needed to feel Gods compassionate love around me?

How does it make me feel, knowing that Gods compassion is everlasting?

God is full of compassion, and never fails those who are afflicted and despised, if they trust in Him alone.

Teresa of Avila


The Lord is full of compassion and mercy.

James 5: 11


Sandwiched between the story about the treachery of Josephs brothers selling him to the Midianites as a slave and Josephs arrival in Egypt is the tale of Tamar the daughter-in-law of Judah, one of Jacobs twelve sons.

We find Tamars story in all its sordid detail in Genesis 38.  Please remember, Jacobs sons were the violent group who murdered their sister Dinahs husband because he was a Canaanite.  Yet, just a few chapters over, Judah, we are told saw a daughter of a certain Canaanite, who was named Shuah, and he took her and went in unto her.

What a hypocrite.  It makes you wonder about the moral code of this family when Dinahs husband Shechem was murdered because he saw and took and lay, yet here, Judah, one of the 12 sons of Jacob resorted to the identical behavior.  I point out this behavior by Judah because we are going to see that his disrespect of the women in his life was consistent, troublesome and in the end it got him into a lot of hot water.

Judahs wife had three sons that we know about Er, Onan, and Shelah.  When Er was old enough to marry, the Bible says Judah picked out his wife a girl name Tamar.

The next words in Scripture are these:  And Er, Judahs first born, was wicked in the sight of the Lord; and the Lord slew him (Genesis 38: 7). There arent many places in the Bible where we find God taking such drastic action.  In order to understand this text and its intent better, I went to my trusty Hebrew translation to see what light could be shown on this passage.  There are two distinctly different Hebrew words used for the word slew.  In Genesis 4: 8, we are told that Cain slew his innocent brother Abel.  In this situation, the word slew means that Cain went after Abel with the deadly intent to slaughter him.  An innocent victim being wrongfully attacked like a lamb taken to the slaughter.  Interestingly, if you remember last weeks story about Dinah, Levi and Simeons murder of the residents of the city in Canaan and of Shechem and his father Hamor, was also referred to as a slaughter the same form of the word slew used to describe Cains murderous act.

However, in the case of God, who slew the wicked Er, the form of the word slew means a person worthy to be suddenly destroyed.

It seems Er was such a horrid person, there was no reason for him to continue to live.  He had set his feet on a destructive path against God.  He liked being evil, a very bad place for any of us to be for when we are out from under the protective hand of God, we lose our ability to survive.   Im going to go way out on a limb here, but since the story of Tamar, in my opinion, is one of the most beautiful stories of Gods compassion toward His daughters every single one of us I just wonder if part of Ers destructive behavior wasnt directed toward Tamar abusive behavior, that in Gods sight was so horrendous, He no longer provided life to this evil man.

At this time, when a husband died with no heir, his brother was charged with stepping in to give a child to the widow.  Well, Onon, the brother decided he didnt want to give Tamar a baby so he sexually disrespected her.  His behavior, we are told, displeased the Lord and Onan died suddenly.  So now, Judah had only one son left and he decided Tamar wasnt going to be the bride of his last son lest he die, also.  Tamar, it appears, was to be a childless, forgotten widow.

From this first event in Tamars life, I see a God who does not take lightly   the mistreatment of His girls whether it is sexual, physical or emotional abuse.  Whats more, as we will see tomorrow, God doesnt take kindly to the Judahs in this world who go back on their word.  In the case of Judah, he decided not to follow Gods way; he went back on his promise to Tamar and God took notice.

Several weeks ago, a single mother wrote me about the treatment she and her children, were enduring at the hand of her former husband a man who at one time had promised to love and cherish her until death do us part.  This abusive man was trying to see that this girls death came sooner than later.  I want to say this as loudly as I can when using a pen to write dont ever let any person abuse you period!

Abusive behavior is never deserved.  Theres no reason for it.  It is not of God ever.  And it cannot and must not be tolerated by the sons and daughters of the King of the Universe. Dont let anyone, be it pastor, priest or King, tell you that you need to endure the evil hand of any abuser.  Instead, go to the book of Genesis and read about Gods response when the men in Tamars life chose to disrespect her.

Get this girls!  Our God of compassion sees the hand that hits, feels the pain that stabs the heart, and hears the cry of anguish when any of His daughters have been abused.   And He promises that His compassion toward us will, fail not.

He was watching out for Tamar and Hell watch out for you, as well.

Teach me to feel anothers woe;

To hide the fault I see;

That mercy I to others show,

That mercy show to me.

Alexander Pope



Lord of the Universe

look in love upon Your people.

Pour the healing oil of Your compassion

on a world that is wounded and dying.

Send us out in search of the lost, 

to comfort the afflicted,

to bind up the broken,

and to free those trapped

under the rubble of their fallen dreams.

Sheila Cassidy

Your friend,

Dorothy Valcárcel, Author
When A Woman Meets Jesus

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